The best place to start the diagnostic process is with your doctor, though some may resist the idea. Some people do not realise or simply deny there is anything wrong with them. This can be due to the brain changes of dementia that interfere with the ability to recognise and appreciate one's memory problems. Others may be afraid of having their fears confirmed.

One of the most effective ways to overcome this problem is to find another reason to visit the doctor. Perhaps suggest an examination of the heart, a blood pressure check or a review of long-term medication. Another way is to suggest it is time for both of you to have a physical checkup. Be sure to provide a lot of reassurance - a calm, caring attitude at this time can help overcome the person's worries and fears. If the person still will not visit the doctor, talk with other families and carers who may have had to deal with similar situations or contact the aged care assessment team (ACAT). Alternatively, you can call the National Dementia Helpline on 1800 100 500 or click here.